“I work with individuals and companies by providing insights, tools and skills to immediately and positively enhance the quality of their personal and organisational relationships.”

I was first exposed to Imago Relationship Therapy in 2006 when a relationship I was in at the time had hit rock bottom (you can read the full story here). I was astounded at how powerful Imago is and the tools that one can use to gain insight into how our upbringing shapes us, the person we become and the relationships we have. In essence this is where the foundation of our emotional intelligence is formed and is carried with us throughout our life.

Having spent over 16years in the corporate world working at organisations such as Standard Bank, Nedbank and KFC, I learned many lessons on relationships in the workplace (internal and external), people and team dynamics and leadership traits. Whether we like it or not we cannot separate work from our personal lives, they are integrated and contribute to our overall health and well-being.

I later studied Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) to further equip myself to help my clients better. Having been through both the Imago and NLP processes myself, it has changed the way I view the world, people and my relationships. I now have more empathy, compassion and understanding for others by applying these principles in all areas of my life.

As a Relationship Expert I have authored a self-help guide Embracing Conflict which is filled with practical tools and insights for personal growth.

I am also a competitive athlete and adventure seeker having competed in several adventures such as:

The Comrades Marathon (14th overall/ 10th SA lady – 2009), Two Oceans Marathon (15th overall/11th SA lady – 2010), cycled from Sun City to Cape Town for charity, summited Mount Kilimanjaro and walked the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu in Peru to mention a few. I therefore know what it takes to set goals and the discipline, focus and motivation it takes to achieve your dreams and goals. Inspiring, motivating and touching people’s lives is my passion.

Paula has featured in several media and publications such as Old Mutual Live, Wealthladder Magazine, Business Essentials, Radio Today, Yfm, Chaifm, Cliff Central, Kayafm and more. Click on the button to read more.

Paula Quinsee is a certified:

  • – Imago Relationship Therapy Educator (IRI 2011)
  • – Imago Relationship Professional Facilitator (IRI 2012)
  • – Completed Personal Development Programme (Achievement Concepts 2012)
  • – NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) Practitioner and Life Coach (Cutting Edge Institute 2013)
  • – Completed Mindsight and Interpersonal Neurobiology Training with Dr Dan Siegel (FAMSA 2013)  
  • – Completed Presenters Training with Hedy Schleifer. (2015)
  • – Completed Deepening the Dialogue Training with Imago Africa. (2016)
  • – Completed Courageous Coaching Training with Sue Wintgens (2016)


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